I'm not happy about it :(
DH and I had cats for 2 years before DS1 turned up, and once he was here my capacity for coping with any small screaming thing other than him went straight out the window. I pretty much forgot their names and started referring to them interchangably as 'CAT!', I couldn't stand being hassled for fuss. I diligently fed them and saw to their health needs but that was about the extent of it.
DS2 emerged about a year later and my capacity for the cats decreased even further, which I assumed was pretty predictable.
The thing is, we're now in 2016 (nearly 5 years later) and I still feel really disproportionately ragey every time they demand something from me. I can't remember the last time I was glad to see them (at least when they were doing anything other than sleeping).
I'm assuming that all my capacity for 'creatures demanding my attention' is still being swallowed by the DC, but they are a lot less demanding than they used to be and so I'm not sure that's true. I worry that maybe I just won't be happy to see the cats ever again, because I've found the past 5 years of child-rearing to be pretty overwhelming tbh and the cats feel like just a bridge too far.
Please can some of you wise cat-owners tell me if this is something you've heard of, or experienced, or can offer advice on? At the moment I feel like I would have absolutely no qualms about giving them away, which is sad in of itself :(
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LaContessaDiPlump · 05/02/2016 08:24
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