Bit of a long story but here goes. We are a cat loving family. 2 of our cats were siblings (brother and sister). Unfortunately our very lovely girl cat went missing in August and was later found out to have been hit by a car, we were all gutted . Boy cat had taken up vigil in the kitchen at the time of his sister's disappearance. Sitting by the Aga starring out of the cat flap. He started going out for longer and longer periods and when he had been gone a few days we went looking for him and found out the factory down the road from us had an engineer's block around the back and they had befriended him. They were not there the first time we went but there were cat bowls left out. We picked up our cat and bought him home.
Unfortunately he escaped a few days later. So we trapsed up there again and bought him home again. This time shutting him in the dining room (our plan was to keep him in for a few weeks until he remembered where he lived). Unfortunately our lovely cat figured out how to open the serving hatch and by morning he was gone again.
We have other cats so needed to keep the cat flap open.
Again when we went up to the factory the engineers were not there. So we left a note about how sad our children were at the loss of our other cat and how they really wanted our cat back home. We thanked them for feeding him but asked them out of respect not to feed him anymore. We even left them some money for their trouble. In the hope that if they stopped feeding him he would come home to us.
I left it a few days but our cat still didn't come home. Dd2 and her friend went up there and this time the engineers were in. They gave dd2 the money back. The girls bought out cat home but he escaped for a 3rd time.
By this time I had resolved myself to the fact that i had pretty much lost our lovely cat to the engineers. Someone had lovingly built him a wooden cat shelter and placed a cat flap into their office so he could go in and out.
I am very aware that cats don't have owners they have servants, and whilst i Iove my cats entirely and miss him sadly he has not been happy here since the loss of his sister :-(
Well dd1 has been very upset and angry over the situation and resolved to get him back again. She went up there today with my sister and brought him back again. The only room i haven't tried to keep him in is the garage. He has escaped from everywhere else.
I feel incredibly mean shutting him in when he doesn't want to be here and have tried explaining to dd1 that he is sad here without his sister. But she thinks i don't care about him, which is just not true.
I don't know what to do really.
We have to let him out at some point and I think he will go straight back up to the engineers and whilst they continue to feed him he won't come home.
I could mention it to the reception at the factory and ask them to tell their engineers to stop feeding our cat but I want to do what is right and fair for the cat.
After his sister went his fur was getting patchy and he wasn't looking great. I am guessing stress. But he looks so well now.
I really don't know what to do for the best :-(
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AstridPeth · 28/12/2015 22:09
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