I've had my lovely old cat for 17 years, she's 18 years old. She's a big part of the family and we love her, my 6yo son is very close to her, she goes to sleep on his pillow next to him most evenings, then I put her outside when I go to bed at around midnight. She's never liked being indoors overnight and on the few occasions she's been left in she's weed on things in the house, we have a litter tray but that is used by my indoor cat and she's never really used it.
Over the last few weeks she's been coming home less and less, at her age she goes through stages of looking a bit bedraggled but that's to be expected and she's definitely not a stray, she wears a collar and has her regular worming and flea treatments. We call her in every day and she usually comes but it's not unusual to not see her for a day or so, recently she's been looking really good, has been putting on weight and is really healthy looking.
Last weekend she disappeared for 3 days, we were all out calling her, looking under cars, knocking on the neighbours doors etc, we didn't think anything had happened to her as she's been looking so good recently...
I suspected that the neighbours 2 doors down have been taking her in as I've seen her hanging around on their doorstep from time to time, but when I was out looking for her last week, the neighbours were home and their windows were open so they must have heard me and my DD calling her, 5 minutes later I went outside and she was sitting on their doorstep! We retrieved her, I got her home and fed her and made a big fuss of her then went round to see them.
Neighbour invited me in and informed me that they have been taking her in regularly for several months, she sleeps in their house most nights, they don't have a cat of their own but have food bowls, a litter tray, a cat bed, blankets and toys (including one of those bloody awful fake cats in a basket made from cat fur). I was probably too nice to them and asked why they've been taking her in when they know she's our cat, they said that they thought she looked a bit scruffy and unloved and felt sorry for her. I explained that she's not a young cat, and that she's actually really healthy given her age. I hinted that she has some health problems due to her age and that she needs a special diet and needs to check in with us at least once a day so that I know she's ok.
Nearly a week on, they're still taking her in, still feeding her and she's only been home twice, I'm not able to keep an eye on her general wellbeing as she's always locked in their house, even when they go to work!
I don't doubt that they love her, but we do too and we just want our cat back home where she belongs. How should I handle this?
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jennieflower · 11/05/2015 19:55
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