We got two cats from the Cats Protection League at the start of September, a 3 yo and a 10 year old. We think they'd lived with someone elderly previously as we were told their owner moved somewhere where they couldn't take the cats with them.
All going okay so far, cats seem to have settled in well, but the younger one is so cocking bitey! They aren't particularly hard - they do hurt but I'm assuming he could bite much harder if he wanted, but they're pretty constant and often without warning(ish - getting used to anticipating it now). For example, right this moment I am sitting on the sofa balancing my laptop on my knee and he is snuggled up next to me, purring away; every now and then I'll break off to stroke him, either on the head or under the chin, and he'll act as though it's the best thing in the world 90% of the time and then randomly make a swipe at my hand. Similarly in the evenings when he joins us on the sofa - stroke, stroke, stroke, bite.
He's particularly bad first thing in the morning when he jumps on the bed and wakes us up and will repeatedly nuzzle our hands for strokes, then bite.
The other day my 3 yo was on the sofa, naked from the waist down, and the cat came over, licked his legs a few times, then sank his teeth into him. I was next to him at the time and it was completely unprovoked.
It's getting a little wearing! Is there anything we can do? Both cats have been neutered and he gets a fair amount of play time (though could possibly do more). He also has free access to outdoors (we are semi-rural).
Also finding his greediness/food obsession quite exhausting. We upped his food when he came to us on the basis he would be more active than he was when he was in the centre. We eventually got to the point where he stopped pestering for/stealing food (pouch plus handful of biscuits twice a day), but he's unfortunately put on an excess kilo (!) so is now back on a diet (1 x pouch in the evening and small quantity of biscuits in the morning). He is now constantly asking for and trying to steal food - repeatedly being shooed off the table and worktops, can't leave any food out on the side, will steal kids' food if left unguarded etc. He's very persistent, will steal food off the fork between your plate and your mouth if he gets the chance. Has to be shut out of the kitchen most of the time (PITA with small children, who are obviously incapable of keeping the doors shut).
Any suggestions please for either issue or is this just what having a cat is like? Not thinking of rehoming because we made the commitment to give him a home, but it would be nice if we could sort these out :(
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Why is my cat such a bitey git?
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ThereMustAndShallBeTea · 08/12/2014 09:51
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