I posted last weekend about the tragic death of our beautiful male cat and you were so kind. Some of you had been through the same thing and so am hoping you might share your experiences. We have had cats for yonks but all have died in old age so we have never experienced a short tragic end, nor have we had siblings before.
We are left with his sister. She is and always has been the more timid of the two. They were a very affectionate sibling pair, slept together and played together. But for the last three weeks she has been noticeably quieter. I actively try and engage her with cuddles and play ( she is only two....and despite being more timid she was always the more playful one), but as soon as I stop she withdraws to a dark corner in an unoccupied bedroom. She is also eating very little and has to be coaxed with treats. He has been gone now for 4 weeks.
Do we let this run it's course or should we find her a companion? I have read that a sibling bond can never be replicated so would another kitten ( I'm thinking kitten so as not to threaten her ) be pointless for her?
If we do offer another one a home, male or female? I loved our boy and he was very loving. But we have only had an older rescue Tom before and now I'm wondering if a young male cat will always wander and get himself into trouble ( despite ours being neutered) . I'm terrified of another cat coming to harm in our care. On the other hand I've read that a female would get on better with a male companion and would not like another female that wasn't her sibling.
I know there is no definitive right and wrong answer but if anyone could share their experiences I would be so grateful. As well as our own grief it is so sad watching our remaining sweetie like this and want to help her any way we can.
Thank you.
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Sister grieving....does she need a companion?
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Squarepegina · 09/08/2014 07:45
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