Hello there - I'm new to MN and to this forum but a good friend told me this might be a place to get some help from normal people :) As background, I am a British expat in HK (this is relevant to the below).
I am currently fostering for the first time as I lost my old boy recently and as I am currently working from home all the time, now was a good time to help out a charity with some fostering while i have lots of time on my hands.
We are looking after a lovely girl - she's a 18m old mongrel that was rescued about 6 months ago from a man that kept her on a balcony all day. You can imagine how awful that was for her - it's very hot and humid in HK and she's black. We think he broke her tail as a puppy or that she was confined to a smaller space for some time as it's grown at an odd angle, but she's beautiful and has the most amazing temprement.
She was originally fostered for 6m on a quiet island in HK - one of the ones with no cars and very idyllic lifestyles. Lots of beach walks and swimming. Unfortunately, as she is black and many Hong Kongers have phobias and superstitions of black dogs, we really needs to be on Hong Kong Island (where more of the expats are) for any really hope of getting her adopted. So I am fostering her here in the hope of getting her out there a bit at adoption days and the like.
So my questions:
- She is absolutely terrified of the noises of the city. Walkies on day 1 was fine as it was all an adventure, but we are on day 5 now and she pulls me like mad to go home before we have even got to the end of my (very quiet) road. I am trying shorter walks rather than long ones and playing youtube traffic noises, which she doesnt seem to care about, but any other tips welcome.
- Her appetite has dropped off a cliff. She will eat a bit of ham etc out of my hand but lthe last 3 days have been a bit low on the food front. I'd say she is eating about 1/2 of her bowl. I haven't changed her eating routine or her food. Is this just fear do we think? She seems fine with us as long as she's inside but I wonder if the stress of walkies has affected her appetite. I dont want to encourage bad habits but I want to make sure she eats properly. If i feed her for a few days whilst sitting by her / helping her, am I going to create issues? Shall I just leave her be, given that she is eating some of it?
Any tips or views welcome.
Thanks in advance!