We have had a plan to get a family dog for a long time. We are still some way off it actually happening, but starting to get serious about it now. So we're finishing off puppy-proofing the garden (6ft fences just in case!) and actively researching suitable breeds and looking at Kennel Club registered breeders that are close enough to visit a few times and for the pup to be OK on the journey from breeder to us when it's finally time. Top of the list at the moment is a miniature poodle, and there's a KC registered assured breeder about 45 minutes' drive away from us.
Originally we were thinking 'adopt don't shop', and getting a rescue. But having volunteered as dog walkers at a local shelter (pre-lockdown) we've realised that we're unlikely to find the right dog for us, especially at the moment with so many people having sought out dogs during lockdown. Our local place won't consider us for most rescues because (1) our daughter is 9 and (2) eventually, the dog will need to be left at home alone for short periods of time (up to three hours) maybe 2-3 times per week. We also have two cats, who I think will cope pretty well with the careful introduction of a small puppy but who would freak out if we brought a fully-grown adult dog, probably with behavioural problems, into our home.
So basically this is us:
- me and DH, in our early 40s
- DD, age 9 (she'll be 10 in the autumn)
- SheCat, who will be 3 in the autumn and HeCat, who has just turned 2.
- DH has mild allergy to long-haired moggies, but is fine with our two short-haired ones and was also fine with our previous short-haired kitty. Nevertheless, want to ensure that our pup is unlikely to make him allergic!
- We're not ones for taking long countryside walks (well I am, but DH and DD aren't!) but would expect to take the dog out at least twice a day for at least half an hour, longer on weekends.
- I work almost full time but don't ever expect to return 100% to the office and will hopefully be home quite a lot of the working week. Should certainly be able to work from home when DH has to be out at work.
- DH works part-time, sometimes from home and sometimes out of the home. Rarely out at work for more than 2-3 hours, and only once or twice a week.
- In-laws live locally and happy to help out with dogsitting, good friend round the corner with lots of dog training experience very keen to help out as much as possible.
- Elderly neighbours next door probably willing to have dog from time to time if we're out, or in an emergency.
- Happy to try and find part-time doggy daycare if need be, although I suspect we can manage without. Dog would likely only be left for 2-3 hours at a time and certainly not every day.
- Currently doing LOTS of reading e.g. Easy Peasy Puppy Squeezy and fully understand I will be sleeping on the couch next to a crate for several weeks and getting disturbed sleep for toilet training!
- Realise that getting a puppy, especially with cats in the house, will require military level planning. Looking at permanent gate across the understairs area (where the most favoured litter tray is), classifying certain rooms as dog-free zones. And realise that all this will need to be done well in advance of puppy actually arriving.
So... do we sound like good candidates for a miniature poodle? Is there anything we need to consider that we might not have thought of? Are there other breeds we should consider? Want to go full pedigree if possible, so we can find a KC assured breeder. Not keen on buying from amateurs who have just bred the family dog and created a little of cockapoos or labradoodles or whatever.
All advice welcome!