My kids are desperate for a dog. I'd love a dog and so would my exH. As it stands I won't get a dog because post COVID I will more than likely have to do a couple of days in the office, although I will be working from home the rest of the week. Ex is going to have a similar set up.
So between us someone would always be at home to be with the dog. However we live in different houses as he's my ex.
On paper it sounds like we could share a dog and have it with us on the days we're working from home and ex is convinced this will work. I have doubts though as I think it would be very confusing for the dog, not knowing which house it lived in.
I'd rather go down a route of one of us owns the dog and it stays during the day with whoever is working from home but sleeps in the same home each night, if I even agree to a dog as there are so many other things to consider.
I've raised the issue of costs with him and he said we'd just halve everything but I'm worried we'd have different ideas around training etc.
Please can you let me know what you think? And please don't be nasty if it isn't a good idea, I'm genuinely asking because I want a dog to have a brilliant life and if this isn't a good idea then I won't agree to it. ExH has a way of making things sound great without considering all the ramifications, so that's what I'm trying to do. Thanks!
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igglu · 26/07/2020 13:19
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