husband is very very keen to get a puppy. He asked me to choose one I liked, and we kind of agreed on Bichon frise or a Maltese.
The problem is I really don’t know if I want a dog. Or any pet. I never had a pet, never had to look after one for more than a couple of hours. I definitely am affectionate towards dogs and cats, but I am scared of the commitment. Do you just fall in love with it and get used to the commitment? I also don’t have kids, I don’t feel maternal, and never have. I think I am too selfish for kids, and therefore I am worried I am too selfish to own a pet. Husband is kind of adamant and says he is getting one. I am not TOTALLY against it, just scared a bit. Is it a crazy idea to just go along with it and let husband get a puppy if I am not a definite yes? If we do get one, there is no way back from it, I would never give it back or not look after it. I’m just worried it will ruin my life. Has anybody been in similar position? Also, has your pet put a strain on your relationship? Arguing about walking/ washing/ taking to vet.
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Husband wants a puppy, I am not sure
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Frauhubert · 07/06/2020 19:13
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