We’ve had our rescue pup now for only 2 nights (3rd day today). He is 6 months old and has had no training and a pretty bad life so far. We knew this wouldn’t be an easy ride and I want to do right by him.
He is a bundle of energy but doesn’t really understand toys or playing and doesn’t really run around in the garden, just wants to lay on the grass so it’s hard to burn energy. We are taking him for outdoor walks today so hoping this will help. We really want to crate train him with the hopes eventually the crate can be just a den and he can come and go as he pleases with the door open when he is toilet trained. Ideally I’d like him to stay in the kitchen overnight though and I don’t want him in the bedroom.
I’ve read countless books and websites about crate training. And also about overnight crying etc but I think we have gone wrong already.
He doesn’t really like the crate. We have been feeding him in there and closing the door. This morning he even lay down for a moment after he was finished eating and we praised that and let him out. But I’m so confused with the differences between nighttime crying and crying in the cage. Nighttime crying says ignore ignore ignore, but crate training says as soon as he crys let him out even if it’s only 5 seconds in there at a time? What should we be doing when crate training? Letting him cry and wait until there is a pause in the crying and then letting him out? Or letting him out as soon as he crys? But will that reinforce “crying = attention at nighttime?” I’m so confused.
What we have done so far.
Morning, feed in crate and shut door behind him. He is fine for the 1/2 minutes he is eating. This morning he finished eating, pawed at the cage and lay for for 30 ish seconds. We let out and praised.
At intervals during the day we incite him in the cage with a kong stuffed with cheese and his kibble (the only food he is really interested in). He works on it for a bit but then wants to come out. His attention will stay on it for longer if I’m sat in front of the cage but as soon as I’m away (in the doorway maybe 5 foot and he can still see me) he gets frantic and starts pawing. I’ve been letting him out after a little bit of crying and there is a pause. I also turn my back when he does the crying. My partner though can leave the room and he’s fine. Am i doing this wrong? Should I be letting him out straight away? I don’t want him to associate the pawing and crying behaviour with coming out of the crate. But I know it should be a safe place and if he is shows agitation he should not be in there.
During the evening because he was biting and frantically pawing at the cage door we left it open so he would not hurt himself and locked him in the kitchen. He cried and scratched the door for hours and hours. He had pooed and weed in this cage when we came down in the morning and he had pulled bits off the draft excluder oh and opened the fridge door (but not ate anything). Last night he cried and scratched for hours (we removed the draft excluder), he had managed to shut his cage door, he weed on a blanket and he had torn some paperwork up (it was on a cork board). We also left the radio on quietly.
We want to crack this crate training and have him calm when he is alone. I know he has separation anxiety because he follows us room to room, me more so and cries if we are behind a closed door. At the moment I’ve just had a shower and my other half is downstairs with him. I think he is coming up to sniff and find me but will go back down.
Any advice would be grand as I’ve never dealt with this before. Had dogs in the past and they’ve been fine with crates and being left alone. We’ve not started training basic commands yet as we were giving him a few days to settle, but I think it’s going to be hard as he doesn’t respond to any toys or food etc.
Please don’t be too harsh with me my anxiety is through the roof and I’ve already cried in the shower.
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HaddawayAndShite · 18/05/2020 08:45
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