Just over a year ago my mum adopted a staffie pup. We all voiced concerns that she may not be up to managing a very active pup - she'd had 3 dogs before him, but they were all adopted as adults - but she was adamant she wanted the puppy "before I get too old for one" (she's early 60s)
She gets the puppy, and he's the sweetest, brightest, loveliest little chap. So responsive and keen to learn and to please - he would be so easy to train. I encouraged her to get him trained while he was tiny and easy to handle (we had staffs while I was still living at home, I know how strong and stubborn they can be). I suggested loads of resources for her to read on training. I demonstrated a lot of techniques to her - within 20 minutes I had him walking to heel. I even offered, in the end, to pay for a dog trainer. She didn't do any of those things.
Fast forward to now and of course, she's not coping. He's still a sweetie but boisterous and disobedient. My DC are frightened of him because he won't stop jumping up at them. There have been incidents with other animals which has ended up costing mum hundreds to cover other people's vets bills. She's in constant pain because she can't get him to walk to heel or let him off the lead, so spends their walks being dragged round by him.
He is being rehomed. Mum's managed to find a rescue that will take him because they have a young couple who desperately want a staffie - they have no kids, live rurally, and are very active. It'll be a great home for him, far better than mum's.
But I'm so sad for him, poor wee chap. None of this is his fault, and he's still a sweetheart, he just desperately needed training which he didn't get. It wouldn't even have taken much, he's super bright.
I wish we could take him. But my DC are scared of him, my DH doesn't want a dog, and once lockdown is over the house will be empty all day as we'll all be out at school or work. Plus we have a cat.
I'm not posting for advice, it's too late for that and I honestly think this new home will be much better for him. I just wanted to vent - I'm so angry at my DM and so sorry for the dog. 
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SoSadForDog · 28/04/2020 19:33
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