Just had a rather nasty run in with a man and wife on our regular 3 mile dog walk. We've seen them before and even joked about our dogs being opposite colours only a couple of days ago, so the dogs have played and know each other.
Today we were on the last leg just as they were starting their walk. Recognising them I walked on with dd letting ddog loiter to play (she usually has a chase about and catches us up) and got about 3/4meters ahead when I hear the husband shouting at me "can't you f*&^ing control your bloody dog? Why hasn't it got a lead on for God's sake!" I was because their dog was also off lead, our dogs usually play and this man wasn't usually angry about it at all. So I try to call ddog over - no joy as they are rolling about and she is being chased by their dog through long grass, etc. So I have to go closer, realising I have no treats and can't get too close to the other dog's owner due to 2 meter rule. He's still shouting at me to "get it under control" and waffling on outraged about something whilst actively trying to stand between me and where the dog is! So I said "Look there's no point us standing here talking about this if you actually want me to catch my dog!" and try again to catch her collar and miss. I pretend I have a treat and ddog comes over to me and I get the lead on (took all of about 4minutes from his first angry bray at us) and I drag ddog away to my open mouthed dd who is in tears because "why did that nasty man shout swear words at you mummy?".
I'm pretty cross, not least because his wife just stood there and said nothing - at one point he said that my dog had jumped up at her, which I didn't see, and so I even apologised to her and him again as I was taking ddog away.
Now I'm thinking back on it i'm quite angry and shocked at their behaviour. What am I supposed to do; I can't have ddog on a lead at all times just in case we bump into them, especially now we only get 1 walk a day and she needs to run. Why is their dog allowed to be off lead and not ours? And yes they were definitely playing - both taking it in turns to chase, wagging, jumping in the grass - no growling, etc - they know each other.
Genuinely happy to be told if I did something wrong here. I know I should probably have had treats in hindsight but ddog is good with recall (unless she meets a friend, as she did today) so I sometimes forget.
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JeSuisPoulet · 25/04/2020 19:57
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