and I'm a dog lover, my family have had dogs all our lives. Always rescues, always on their last chance, all mixed breeds, and all amazing, funny, affectionate and loving, once their anxiety had calmed down and they realised they were home. But this dog...it's a pure breed, an anatolian shepherd, and it is just being allowed to rule the roost. It's 18 months old and is already nearly 60kg, his head is about 11 inches across, standing his shoulder is level with my hip and I'm 5'7 and if you sit down, he immediately looms over me, and tries to climb on the furniture to domineer over me. He spent an hour yesterday being hauled off my husband as he was trying to hump him, and although the dog did eventually calm down, it was more because he was tired than anything the two owners did. One of the couple is ineffectual beyond belief and the dog often humps him (which in my mind is a domineering behaviour, disrespectful and needs sorting now) and whilst the other tries, at best his discipline is a loving sigh of "oh dog, you shouldn't do that, come on now, lie down" rather than authority speaking.
Whilst the dog isn't out of control (yet) I can see it happening and I'm not comfortable going to their house any more. I'm not happy being loomed over by a dog with a mouth large enough to engulf my head, and I'm not remotely happy with being pestered and barged about by him.
I know it's a "fault" if you like of this breed - they're working dogs who should be guarding a flock of animals, and most definitely not meant to be house pets. The dog is walked, and they do have a large garden so he's got plenty of room to roam, so those needs are provided for. Whilst he's not aggressive, he IS domineering and I'm very very uncomfortable with it. I'm just not going to their house again, am I? I've never trusted a dog less in my life.
I'm not sure what I'm asking here, maybe just expressing my anxiety about this animal as I have to hide it when I visit them as of course, dogs pick up on that. This creature is absolutely scaring me.
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Gertrudesgarden · 01/01/2020 18:06
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