Out walking with my dog this morning. We approached two dogs who I know my dog is scared of. My dog Is very nervous of certain dogs and starts to show signs of fear so I move him off the path and away from the dogs. These two dogs pull over to mine. They are very noisy dogs so I can’t say for sure what happened but my dog yelped. I pulled him away and the other owner said ‘don’t give me dirty looks’ I said you shouldn’t let your dogs jump at mine who is clearly scared and ’ve clearly moved away from you’. The other owner said ‘oh f** off’. I said ‘don’t tell me to F off, you F off. I’ve done nothing wrong and I’m trying to protect my dog who is already scared and one day he’s going to react to the fear and bite’. Now I’m not 100% sure but I’m 90% sure he said something along the lines of ‘I’ll bite you if it carries on’. At this point I overreacted and said ‘you’re going to bite me? You should be ashamed of yourself you absolutely disgusting arse I’ve got my child with me, who does that?!’. He said ‘you’re swearing at me telling me to F off, don’t tell me to f off’ I said you told me to ‘f off then said you’d bite me’ he didn’t deny it but didn’t admit it either. I walked away.
Now I’m well aware I escalated this. I shouted and swore back, which he clearly didn’t like 🙄 However I never said anything in the first place, and I also didn’t intend on it. It was just another incident of my dog getting scared by other dogs, but I’ve obviously given the man a dirty look and then this happened.
Aside from walking a different route (which is difficult at this time of year with the dark mornings) how do I manage this going forward? I’m not scared of this man but don’t want to subject my child to another incident. And I don’t want to escalate it further as we see him every morning.
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Beagled · 29/10/2019 10:36
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