Dog is neutered, no health issues, 5 years old, male working cocker spaniel. My Ddog is absolutely fine with my young DC. I've never had a single moment that's been an issue, but I always exercise caution as in I don't leave them alone together. This sort of happens naturally as my dog tends to follow me around anyway. I also have stair gates so on the rare occasion I need to separate them, say if I'm having a shower then I shut Ddog behind the gate. I took him to dog training, no issues with other dogs and can walk him off the lead no problems, even on the roads. He recalls and won't go near a dog if I say no.
Ddog is also fine with Children he meets out. Doesn't jump up, not massively keen for them to stroke him, but will tolerate it and is used to being chased about my DC, although I do intervene in this. Fine with my DC touching him, but will move away if he's had enough. Fine with other children playing around him bikes, scooters, shouting or going past schools. Everyone tells me what a wonderful dog he is.
So my issue is if someone under about 12 comes into our house or garden. He barks at them and it's not just on arrival. He can be fine, but then will just randomly bark, loudly. He will sometimes grumble a bit first, but not a snarl or show of teeth. However it makes it impossible to have any young children over. I have tried numerous times and he starts off fine, then after about an hour he starts with the random barking. It's not set off by particular things that I can pinpoint. He does suffer the common spaniel anxiety over certain noises, but in those cases he shakes and wants to be cuddled. He doesn't display that shaking when other children are at our house, so I don't think he's scared of them. I can't tie it to a noise setting him off. But who knows.
If it makes any difference Ddog is walked twice a day, morning and afternoon. He goes different places, and would always of had a walk and been fed before any people come over. He is a healthy weight. I'm at home with him most of the time, left by himself a limited amount of time, which he copes with fine, will sleep. He does go crazy about someone ringing the doorbell or the post coming, so is protective over the house. Does look out of the window and bark at passers by.
I did hire a behaviourist about this child issue and she was useless. She says he needs a safe haven to go to when children are round. He has this our bedroom, but his safe haven is me, he's not the type of dog that goes off by himself into another room. He always wants to be with us. Sleeps in his basket in our room at night. Doesn't go on sofas or DCs beds. Will jump on our bed, but will get off if told.
I hope I've given enough info. Just after any suggestions on what I can, if anything? Or are my children destined to never have friends over?
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time4an3wname · 28/10/2019 18:32
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