Our son is autistic, an older teen and academically able but in many ways like a younger person. He has had a terrible school year and has been (diagnosed) depressed. He has been improving and much better. He had a special relationship with a relative's ddog - the sweetest, gentlest cav - but this poor dog just died very unexpectedly and it has set him right back. Ds is not aggressive at all but very withdrawn when depressed.
We have been reluctant to get a dog ourselves as we have been busy people but dh is about to go on gardening leave, following which he will usually or often wfh. I work 3 days and am in and out of home those days and sometimes wfh all day, but prob once a week out all day.
We think with this new situation and how devastated he has been with death of beloved ddog we are now considering getting a pup for him. A cav would be lovely but the health problems seem so pervasive. A non shedding dog would be useful who can be a companion but also get taken out and about a couple of times a day, who will let Ds adore it (cav would be cuddled), but won't mind as an adult the odd day alone from 9-3 (older ds get home from school at 3).
I was thinking of a Havanese? A Greyhound another possibility though we do have a cat so probably not such a good idea? Or is there a way to get a cavalier with no health issues (previous beloved dog died from sudden onset paralysis of back legs, pts) Anyone got better advice? I know we would need puppy classes and possibly a daily walker....not owned a dog as an adult though both dh and I grew up with dogs.
Grateful for any advice.
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Possible first time owners, autistic son. Advice?
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Abstractedobstructed · 30/08/2019 18:26
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