Me again, please be gentle as I seem to get a lot of hassle when I ask for advice. I am asking for advise because I am desperate. I know I have created a rod for my own back with this one.
Ddog came to me 7 weeks ago, for the first few days I slept downstairs with him, planning to eventually leave him alone at night. I tried him in a crate but he kept peeing in and on it whenever it was in the room, the same with a dog bed. I was then ill and was taken into hospital for 4 days so someone else had to look after him, they slept on the sofa with him. When I got home after surgery I needed to be in bed so to make life easy (so I didn’t have a mess to clear up in the morning) I allowed Ddog to sleep on the bed. I now want to move him to sleeping downstairs.
I have been preparing him by sleeping back downstairs with him, making him sleep on his blanket and not on me, I have been using a old duvet to sleep on to give in my scent to leave out for the dog. Last night I decided to leave Ddog alone, it didn’t go well, he whined on and off all night, he pooped, he wee’d and finally he vomited . I did come down to remove the poo, didn’t make a fuss or verbalise with him, I then left the back door open to give him access to the garden but he continued to whine. I am now downstairs with him and he’s fast asleep (on his blanket) but I haven’t fussed him.
Where do I go from here? How do I reward him for being quiet? As soon as I move in bed he starts to whine again so by the time I would get to him I would be rewarding for whining? Do I just leave him for a short time and then return? But again I would then be rewarding the whining?
I want my bed back, I have a new partner who would like to stay over but there’s no way the dog would allow him to share the bed. Also the cat likes to share my bed, it’s his safe place away from the dog and I want that time with the cat.
Please help, and be gentle, I have had hardly any sleep
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Lovemusic33 · 17/08/2019 06:13
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