We have lived in our semi for over 12 years and have had our dog for 6 years. About two years ago, the unattached neighbours wife popped round to ask, very nicely, if we could stop our dog barking at night as her husband went to bed at 9pm. I was mortified and apologised profusely and said that I had noticed over the last few days that when she went out at 10pm she did suddenly seem to bark more than usual, which used to be about two barks. I said that I would ensure she never went out beyond 9pm in future. Now, if she needs to go out after that time, my partner puts her on a lead hail, rain or shine so she doesn't bark. To give further context to our dog, she is never alone, my partner works from home and she has two 1 hour walks a day. The wife has always been polite, saying hello or a brief chat or wave. The husband has never spoken to us or even smiled since we moved in. He doesnt go to bed at 9pm either. Since this occurred we have been suspicious of the husband and have caught him on occasions clapping at our dog when he doesn't know we are there which then starts her barking. We also see our dog looking up at his bedroom window. We thought it odd and obviously didn't want to create a fuss , however, this has now escalated as the behaviour he has created means the dog barks at him and he is now shouting over the fence for her to shut up. I suspect it is when he thinks we are not in earshot but twice I have heard it. The first time, I said you wouldn't be shouting for her to stop if she was alerting you to an intruder. He never responds back. The last time was recently at 8.20pm when my 12 year old daughter was in the garden. I would have gone round there to confront him but I was home alone and didn't want to upset my daughter any further. She is wary of him as she has said over the years that he stares at her from his bedroom window when she is playing in the garden. I state this point, not to imply impropriety, but it is obvious that any sound, even that of a child swinging or playing, is an issue for him. It is usually accompanied by loud closing of their windows. He even added plastic spikes to the one section of fence that borders were our daughters pool is in the Summer. None on the rest of the fence.
We are now on holiday and our security camera has shown a video of his wife posting a note. Our house/dog sitter has said it is a snotty note stating it is from the residents of our street. Now, if our house/dog sitter has been letting her out later than usual, I am happy to apologise, however, we know it is BS that it is from the street and the video shows who it is. The dog didn't bark either as she doesn't even bark at postmen or anyone who comes to our door! Our attached neighbours have two little children and we would never let our dog bark excessively, they have never complained. I am now so paranoid for any bark at all, I even feel uncomfortable talking in the garden which is creating further stress and tension between me and my partner as he is done with them and feels we have done everything and compromise has go two ways. I have never fell out with a neighbour in my life, will do anything for anyone, including them. We saved them a fortune on solicitors fee's approving two extensions, never complained about the noise of them being built and now I just feel stressed all the time and worry he is the type of person who would throw over poisoned meat! I want to still try to be reasonable but my partner thinks they are beyond that and he is obviously an obsessive and we should just ignore them. To me it feels that it is bordering on harassment. I have read up on noise nuisance law and will log any time she barks for piece of mind. I also want a video installed in the garden so we can have evidence of this also should they ever take it further. I am 100% confident they would not have a leg to stand on but want to be sure. It is making my life a misery and worry about my well behaved, normal barking, lovely dog who loves everyone. I even want to suggest he meets her and then she won't bark at him but doubt they will take me up on that offer.
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Aurora0711 · 22/07/2019 11:30
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