I have three dogs, all from rescue centres.
My third who I adopted a year and a half a go is becoming a problem.
She will not be house trained and we have had to remove all rugs, mats and soft dog beds because she just wees in them. I have tried everything and she just won't stop. She is also very destructive.
Though she gets on with the other two, she constantly winds them up and I can't even have a quick fuss with them without her getting in the way.
I feel the other two have suffered since I brought her in because they can't have beds, toys ( she destroys them) or attention from me. And I'm generally very stressed around them all.
Though I love her I'm starting to become very resentful towards her and I spend most of my time at home upstairs, leaving them downstairs, just to be away from the situation. It's having a negative impact on my mental health.
I'm angry at myself for taking on a third dog as our house is not big enough and I should have known I couldn't cope with a third.
I could return her to the rescue centre and I know she would go to a good home- they do home checks and are quite thorough with the rehoming process.
I just feel so guilty. I do love her an awful lot but I'm not being a good dog mum at the moment.
Has anyone got any advice or have been in a similar situation?
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lunaland · 10/07/2019 09:14
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