I have a 13 YO border collie whose mobility has deteriorated a lot in the past 12 months but very drastically over the last two months. He struggles now to stand without assistance although can walk ok once helped up. He’s not incontinent generally but has had one or two accidents lately. Doesn’t cock his leg anymore but usually manages ok once outside.
He looks exhausted after very short periods walking and isn’t the dog he once was. He also gets into corners and can’t work out how to turn round and get out again-I think his vision is going as he can’t judge kerbs etc. He doesn’t appear to enjoy anything much anymore except gentle fusses and cuddles. He isn’t eating much although remains enthusiastic about scoffing ham or cheese from fridge. Not really touching his kidney diet dog food at all in last few days but will nibble on treats.
We have taken him to the vets multiple times over the last year and 3/4 times in last 6 weeks. He fell over at the vets this week and couldn’t get up and vet recognised he has no strength in back legs but now the front ones are tired out too. Vets have given painkillers, appetite stimulants-talked about hydrotherapy too. They even mentioned rest and surgery a few months ago which felt a bit crazy for such an old boy. This is where I feel torn as I wonder if I should be doing more for him but also like he is suffering and it’s not right.
His heart is good, some kidney failure, terrible mobility-back legs are wasting away and he is at times evidently in pain which I cannot bear to see. His new medication does seem to have resolved the pain but we’ve had to double the dose in two weeks as it wasn’t working well enough.
He’s just not our lovely dog anymore and I feel that perhaps I’m being cruel by not having him PTS. But then the vet isn’t mentioning a prognosis or plan other than keep taking painkillers and trying to get him to eat.
I hoped he might just go to sleep and not wake up one night but I don’t think that is going to happen.
He’s my first dog and I want to do right by him. He’s been with me since 9 weeks old. I would really appreciate advice from people who have had to make the same decision or have had a dog with similar issues.
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Arsenicinthesugarbowl · 09/07/2019 21:48
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