Just after some practical advice really. MIL has a rescue daschund which she dotes on. But the dog doesn't like children. In 2 years it has marginally improved. We can now generally get through a visit without it growling at my two DC 10 and 8 but it still randomly barks at them if they make sudden movements or at other people when we are out and about with her and it.
She has had a two dog behaviourists who have told her that it is a very frightened dog. It may well be but the last two years it has had no reason to be frightened.
My problem is that my MIL just won't acknowledge the issue so insists on bringing it to our house. Giving it top dog position at her house and sulking when we ignore it. We ignore it because the dog hates it when we try to interact with it so to me the least stress for everyone and especially the dog is to just leave it be. We've taught DC to respect it and only stroke it if it comes to them and to be aware of its body language.
What does anyone think I could do. The dog is a huge comfort and company to MIL as she lives alone but she repeatedly refuses to acknowledge the risks which gives us issues. Any tips for getting grumpy anti social dogs to just be more pleasant? Thanks.
Ps this is not a MIL bashing post just the situation we are in
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cakeforme · 12/05/2019 17:12
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