Does anyone else experience this?
We have a very bouncy dog that will enthusiastically greet some guests if the opportunity is there. Could have been walking all day and will still do it.
My emphasis is on some and not all. He will not jump at me, DH, regular visitors (DM and DF). We have from day one ignored him until all 4 paws are on the floor and parents have done the same.
But there are some guests that refuse to do this for more than 2 seconds. Irregulars that are much more exciting than me or DH. For example, ILs will come in and insist they 'need to be firm' with him, shouting at him when he jumps and giving him lots of lovely (negative) attention for doing it. They will also complain about the dog trying to be a lap dog with them (fair, he is medium sized and doesn't sit on me or DH either) - but if he DOESN'T try to sit on their lap and calmly lays on the floor, which we reward him for, they bend over, coo at him, ask why he isn't trying to sit on them, doesn't he love them any more, and encouraging him up on to them.
I've dealt with this for ages and it's driving me crazy. He's being completely set up to fail when irregular visitors come around, to the point where I am now having to leash him when he comes in so that I'm in charge of attention he gets rather than these particular guests.
He is incredibly well trained in all other areas of his life, it's just the infrequent guests he gets giddy with, but we are regularly ignored when we ask not to greet him or give him any sort of attention unless he is calm, and then he gets mixed messages re sitting with them for cuddles.
I don't like 'guest blaming' and it is on us as owners, but what the hell do you do when they keep getting set back by people?
Baby gate to separate from guests that hype him up is now the option I think, which is a real shame, because he is a dream with most others.
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A bit of a rant - guests setting training back
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Slicedpineapple · 27/04/2019 08:43
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