Just wondering how others might have coped after the death of a much loved dog? My lovely boy died last October, from complications brought on by his underlying autoimmune disease. He was only 4 1/2. He succumbed to AIDs when he was 18 months old after contracting a meningitis virus, and every 6 month or so he would have a serious flair up, which would be managed quickly with antibiotics, and he'd bounce back as though nothing had happened! In the meantime, his condition was managed with low dose steroids.
In October he had a flair up in the usual manner, but it was catastrophic and within 12 hours or so, he died. Although I was used to these episodes and had been told anecdotally by many that dogs with AIDs often don't live long, I just wasn't prepared for this. It was sudden and brutal.
I have really struggled to manage my grief at losing him and part of me feels silly that I am still so deeply upset. A voice in my head says, "he was just a pet, get a grip," but he meant so much to me. As a juvenile, before he first became ill, he was a real handful and a challenge, being so wilful and independent and confident, I had many battles with him. My husband had a bit more command of him in those early months but all the way through, it was me who did the training, took him to classes and agility, walked him and put the time and effort in. After he first became ill he bonded with me because I nursed him, and from then on he and I had an understanding and I regarded him as a faithful companion, finding solace in spending time with him on long walks when other areas of my life were at times difficult. I think his death has been all the harder for me because I invested so much in him.
I just miss my buddy, his quirky character, and while we are soon to welcome a new puppy into our home, which I know I will love and enjoy, I can't get past this grief. Does anyone have any words of solace on this?
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subterraneanalien · 16/03/2019 22:28
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