I know this topic has been done to death.
But I’m just feeling a bit down today.
Posted last night about how puppy decided she hated her crate after 12 weeks of sleeping through every night in it. Anyway, she howled for about 15 minutes in the end before falling asleep, but now I’m dreading the same thing tonight. Hearing her howling makes me feel really anxious.
Everything’s just getting on top of me a bit. We are used to dogs, had our last one for over 10 years, but puppies are such hard work aren’t they? And this week she’s started pushing the boundaries.
She’s refusing to do a wee before I leave for work in the morning at 9am (baring in mind she’s not been since 6am by that point) and then because the dog sitter doesn’t come until 10.30 she’s started weeing in her crate. I only work for 3 hours a couple of times a week so she’s not alone for long.
Today she refused to go for a wee at 9am, I had to pop home at 9.15 as had forgotten something and she went and did the biggest wee imaginable when I let her out, so why won’t she go before I leave for work?!
After a month or so of great behaviour she’s ripping up plants, digging carpet, shredding beds. She gets 3 good walks a day, on and off lead, and she’s only meant to have 25 minutes a time due to her age, but she has around 40 minutes 3 times a day as she’s a pain if she doesn’t. She has mind games, puzzles, kongs, pizzle sticks, pigs ears, cows ears, paddywack, yak chews, antlers etc etc.
I feel so guilty if we even leave her for 2 hours on a weekend, mainly because I feel bad leaving her crated, but if she’s not crated she chews the skirting board, doors, furniture etc. I find myself rushing back for her all the time and I’m spending a fortune on getting the dog sitter to pop in for 20 minutes even if she’s only left for 2 hours!
She’s a spaniel so really clever. She aced puppy class and is halfway through the next level class and is 100% the cleverest dog there. She picks everything up so quickly.
Just wanted a moan really as I feel so restricted right now.
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whattodonownow · 28/02/2019 15:54
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