This will be long.
I have severe anxiety disorder (this is relevant to dog) and suffer panic at the thought of taking the dog out because she dislikes other dogs.
I think my anxiety plays a huge part because she socialises fairly well when different people walk her, although she is still ‘grouchy’ just not as bad.
She has never ‘attacked’ and will opt to avoid if possible.
I have spent years training positively and she just isn’t getting better.
In fact, her behaviour has worsened over time to the point that she now reacts to every single dog she meets irrespective of age, temperament and size and instead of just growls she has air snapped and nipped on occasion therefore she no longer has off lead privilege.
In desperation I have opted to try correction/balanced training.
I am fine with her not being social but I am not okay with her aggressing at placid dogs for just existing near her.
She hates being on lead and walks to heel sulking with her head and tail down.
For the past 3 walks every time her tail has gone up (a sure sign she intends to go for the dog) I have administered a leash correction.
Which without fail gets horrified looks and comments.
Which then sets my anxiety off even worse.
I don’t want to correct her.
I am just desperate for her to walk past or quickly meet dogs without going for them and don’t know how to do it because food and toys are just not working and she is getting worse.
Today, on approaching yet another dog I couldn’t face more tuts, looks and comments and repeatedly turned round while the other owner got their dog then had a full blown panic attack, I had to sit on a bench unable to stand because my legs were shaking so bad crying with the dog up on all fours looking concerned licking at me
I let her off lead for the journey home and we didn’t see any dogs luckily, seeing her so happy racing and bouncing about breaks my heart.
I don’t know what to do.
I feel like I am failing this dog as I am trying to keep her leashed to protect other dogs and she is miserable but loose she is so happy but she is making other dogs miserable by growling and snapping at them for nothing.
I am terrified of another dog attacking her in response or her biting them.
I am terrified of other dog owners attacking me for her behaviour and my behaviour correcting her.
And that terror is making me ill, the thought of walking her gives me heart palpitations, body trembling, tight chest, trouble breathing...
Has anyone here tried balanced training?
Will it work in the end?
I am tempted to just muzzle her and let her loose.
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Helpimsoanxious · 07/12/2018 14:50
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