Hi All
Ive posted on relationships board but not here before & need some advice.
Ive just separated from my husband, will eventually divorce.
As well as ds we also have 2 ddogs, one is 11& 1/2 other is 3.
At the moment we agreed the dogs will stay with h (who is at his dads) mon am - thurs pm with me the rest of the week. Ive just got them back, they look stressed & knackered. H works 12 hour shifts fri-sun is off mon- thurs. He now lives in a town, no enclosed garden, im in the county with an enclosed garden. H says hes been walking them 4 times a day.
Im feeling conflicted, i love my dogs & think they would be better off here with me. H would never agree to this, im pretty sure he loves them more than ds.
Im worried about the effect going backwards & forwards will have on them.
But also worried if i gave them up they would be alone (together) for upto 14hours at a time.
Does anyone have any experience of a similiar situation or have any advice? If it helps my ds is staying with H 2 nights a week (mon & weds).
Thank you
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Justme1981 · 15/11/2018 18:25
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