We rescued a 5 year old dog last year and she is a wonderful little thing. She came with a few issues which we expected, but mostly we have managed to work on them and gain her trust and she is mostly fine now. She had massive separation anxiety which we worked and worked on, and now she can be left for short periods (although that rarely happens because she’s with at least one of us most of the time). She had guarding tendencies too which we worked on and we now very rarely see. She also used to pee in the house but we worked out the cause and again, have managed to stop that too. She is very eager to please and just wants us to be happy with her, so she responds amazingly to training.
The only problem we still have is how she is with other dogs. She hadn’t been properly socialised as a puppy, and then was attacked by a dog, so by the time she was rescued and taken into foster, she had no idea how to behave around other dogs. She was like a puppy - didn’t know when a dog was up for playing or not, would be too full on or not know when to stop, or would read a dog wrong and be snappy. By the time she came to us, she had learnt a lot, but obviously the second move to live with us knocked her confidence a bit I think, so she almost had to relearn how to behave around dogs again.
She comes across as very bossy to begin with, but I think she’s actually incredibly insecure around other dogs, so resorts to telling them off to get away from them. We have another dog at home, and they are absolutely fine together now - our other dog is most certainly the boss and she is happy with this. In fact, I think even the cat is more of the boss than she is now. She is also fine with family members’ dogs now she’s got to know them, and apart from barking at them when they charge about like loons, she doesn’t bat an eyelid at them.
The issue is when we are out walking, she wants to sniff other dogs and be curious, but then snaps at them if they get too close. The other dogs always end up looking completely baffled by this or end up snapping back. I decided it was best to keep her on a lead to try and avoid this, but of course there are always dogs off lead bounding up to her which she can’t cope with at all (fair enough!)
So now, I keep her on a lead most of the time, and only really walk on our own land so we don’t meet other people, but I worry I’m making the issue worse by not exposing her to other dogs enough, and I don’t find walks very enjoyable anymore incase we do meet other dogs!
I’ve tried contacting a few local training centres to see if they could help with socialisation, but with no luck, so I’m not sure where to go from here. DH tells me she’s fine and to just let her meet other dogs and let them sort themselves out, but I’m not comfortable with that at all unless I know the other dog. She never does anything more than bark at them, but I can’t rely on that or rely on the other dog to not go further. I am also probably making the situation worse by being tense. DH is much more experienced with dogs than I am, so I wonder if I’m making a mountain out of a molehill. It’s hard to know.
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GinGeum · 15/11/2018 08:58
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