I know it's very early days, but DH (and I) has had a rescue dog (1 year old girl) for coming up to two weeks. She was very nervous when she came but every day grew happier and bolder.
As I say it's very early days but the issue we have is that she is still very wary of DH but she attached to me very strongly within 48 hours. We both work from home so are around a lot and together but she is suppose to be DH's dog!
He gives her all her food and treats and takes her out 80-90% of the time. He isn't heavy-footed (though he is very tall) and is so, so gentle with her but he barely gets a flicker of the tail or much interest from her at all, whereas she will follow me everywhere, sit next to me, sit outside doors whimpering if I'm in a room with the door shut (e.g. the bathroom).
As far as we are aware she has only ever had a female owner since she her pregnant mum was found on the street, so we assume it has much to do with this.
Anyone got any advice on how we can encourage her to attach to DH more? I don't want to ignore her as she needs to feel secure here (and I love her too), but equally I don't want to encourage her to continue to only come to me for fuss and attention when it's really DH who wants that role, not me!
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distantdog · 16/08/2018 10:00
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