I'm in a sticky situation and I don't know what to do...
Basically my parents have a toy dog who they have had since a pup and the dog is now is 5 years old. This dog has been completely doted on and spoilt by my parents to the point the dogs diva behaviour has been a bit of a joke with the rest of the family.
Recently my Mum (who has historically had allergy issues) has been suffering with her health and, cutting a long story short, has been told by a specialist after numerous tests that the dog has to be rehomed otherwise she will end up hospitalised.
My parents were totally devastated.
So they tentatively lined up another family out of the area who apparently love this particular breed and a date was set for the handover of their dog.
I am a dog lover and in our family we have a large breed dog who we dote on. We have trained our dog well and our dog is the apple of our eye in every way. I am so attached to our own dog, I see him as my baby. We go for long muddy dog walks and he does lots of tricks which is typical for his breed. I look at him and my heart melts.
Last week, we were with my parents and when they mentioned the day of the handover for their dog, my mum broke down in tears. Hating seeing my parents so upset, and knowing how much they have supported me in the past with various things, in a total moment of madness, I offered to take their dog in.I stressed to them that I am not particularly a lover of toy dogs, my bond is with the breed of my own dog, but I would be taking her in purely to help them. They live relatively locally so they can see her whenever they want and that their dog will be kept in the family.
They were over the moon and overjoyed. They couldn't thank me enough. My dad said he would pay all the vet bills for her but also commented that if it doesn't work out, we shouldn't feel bad about rehoming her. I woke up the next morning thinking WTF have I done? I have never bonded with their dog. I don't think she is cute at all (please dont flame me for this) and I hate her "diva" behaviour. (Mainly surrounding what she will or will not eat and where she sleeps)
On the day of the handover they came over with a bootful of paraphernalia for her. I was shocked to feel nothing but irritation that my kitchen has been filled with stuff and crap for her. They casually asked me whose bed she would be sleeping on and looked shocked when I said that she will sleep in the kitchen in her own bed as does my own dog.
They then made a show of introducing her to us "this is your new mummy and daddy" Remembering what my dad had said about rehoming her, I made a lighthearted comment about "Let's see how this goes shall we?" My dad asked me what I meant and I said that we will have to see how my own dog takes to her as he is 8 years old and never had to live with another dog. Immediately they commented "oh they will be fine together don't worry" yes well we will see. (So far as it happens my own dog has been fine. He just ignores her!)
Please don't misinterpret this post to suggest I would ever neglect or abuse her as I am not like that but I look at her and feel nothing for her. I look at her and see the really bad tear stains on her white coat and she has breath that would strip paint so I don't like to pick her up too much.
I just so regret stepping forward and now don't know what to do for the best. Sorry for the essay btw.
If you're worried about your pet's health, please speak to a vet or qualified professional.
The doghouse
I've made a massive mistake
guestofclanmackenzie · 18/09/2017 13:48
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