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Im potentially rehoming a dog <squeal>

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MollyMooDog · 28/07/2017 07:45

Some of you may recall a thread I started a couple of months ago about my beautiful 11 yo SBT having cancer and having to go rainbow bridge.

It's been hard, I'm so lonely in the mornings, I always look for her, still talk to her, still go to put food in her bowl that isn't there anymore. I miss her so very much.

A very close friends family member has a 2 yo beautiful blue SBT who now needs a better home, the one she has is perfectly fine, but my friend thinks the dog will be much happier with me, get more exercise, attention, cuddles etc and also serve to fill the dog shaped hole that we all have in our lives. She's been brought up with babies, has already been spayed so they are clearly responsible owners and she sounds just lovely.

Were going to meet her on sunday, it took a while to get dp on board with it, unfortunately for him I wasn't going to let him "put his foot down" on this one and I ground him down eventually. He's gone from a very reluctant "right we'll go and meet her but I'm not promising anything" to discussing how he will handle any training issues such as off lead probs and where shell sleep, downstairs or on our bed Hmm

For me this is perfect, a dog needs a home so I'm keeping her out of a rescue and won't be going to just anyone, she's over the torrid puppy gnawing/pin teeth/shitting everywhere phase, and most importantly the dog will have the best home ever for the rest of her life. I'm nervous as it does feel a bit soon after my dear dogs passing, god I miss her so much I can't breathe sometimes, but there again is this fate? And is it better to just get back on the horse before I decide to never get one again? Some sort of comfort maybe?

Keep em crossed for me that all goes well on Sunday. I'm very excited aswell and nervous. I hope she likes us :)

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MollyMooDog · 28/07/2017 07:56

Oh and if anyone has any tips on how to help her settle I'd be grateful, I know she'll be very distressed if she leaves her family she's known all her life

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catsarenice · 28/07/2017 08:03

I'm a cat rather than dog person so no tips I'm afraid but I just wanted to say that you sound lovely and the dog will be very lucky to spend her life with you.

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MollyMooDog · 28/07/2017 08:11

Thank you Blush

I was a cat person, had 7 at one point who all lived very long lives, 5 were strays that I forced mum to take on Grin but when Molly came along she changed me completely, still love cats, but I'm very much a dog mum now :)

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MollyMooDog · 28/07/2017 09:08

Bump for morning crowd :)

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Purpleknickers · 28/07/2017 09:28

So excited for you, very sorry that Molly went to the Rainbow bridge its heart breaking isn't it.

My BIL did not want another dog after losing theirs a couple of years ago now they have a re-homed staffy and he is definitely BIL's dog

I hope Sunday goes well

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MollyMooDog · 28/07/2017 09:38

Thanks purple. I've switched between not wanting to go through this raw grief again and thinking it's daft to throw years of unconditional love that we'd get from a dog over the inevitable, and that I'm doing Molly a disservice by discounting all the years we had with her if that makes sense.

I've handled it a bit better than I thought day to day but I do get very very low moments frequently when I just feel total despair and sadness and it feels like someone is standing on my chest.

Sunday can't come quick enough. If all goes ok I was thinking about suggesting we pick her up a few days after so they can say goodbye and get used to the thought of her going just in case they change their mind, which I'd be fine with.

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BiteyShark · 28/07/2017 11:21

Hope it goes ok op. Fingers crossed for you Grin

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MollyMooDog · 28/07/2017 14:31

Cheers bitey
To help her settle I was thinking about finding out everything I can about her creature comforts, so where does she sleep now, where does she like to be scratched, any noises she doesn't like, etc etc and then when/if we get her just sort of leaving her to snuffle about, almost ignoring her, to give her time to get used to the smells, sounds etc and then if she comes to us then make a fuss over her.

I'm so hopeful she will just do what Staffies do though and 'claim' us immediately as her forever humans Grin

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pigsDOfly · 28/07/2017 19:58

Oh, you sound so excited OP. She sounds beautiful, haven't seen a blue for ages, such a gorgeous colour.

All the very best luck for Sunday. Hope it all goes well.

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MollyMooDog · 30/07/2017 16:03

So the meet went really well, few issues, - very VERY excitable and pretty painful mouthing - probably down to pent up energy and just being a SBT Grin not too fussed about either as we have more time to walk/play with her and the mouthing I think we can get out of her by distracting/yelping when she does it. But she was fab with the kids, as soon as one went near her she instantly calmed down and was very gentle. So the mouthing is the only real downside atm. Once she calmed down she was even more lovely.

Were bringing her back here on Thursday for a few days trial to check she likes us and that we can work with her to sort her out a bit, plus will give the current owner chance to check she's 100% about giving her up to us. She's beautiful, lovely blue/brindle type colour, lovely blue eyes, the small stature type staffy (so a 'proper' one) that I love and she has the most pretty face I've ever seen on a dog apart from Molly of course.

Question - if it turns out the owner can't find her microchip number is there any way of getting over this so we can register her to us? Ive had a quick look online but the info is a bit overwhelming and it looks like there are quite a few microchip companies. Worst case is the chip is registered to an older address so there's may be no way of the current owner even being able to give her details to all of the chip companies........surely this happens all the time e? (I'm being hypothetical here, I forgot to ask if the owner has the chip details and don't really want to bother her until Thursday but I'm a bit nervous that we won't, be able to register her to us, surely there's a way in these situations?)

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Floralnomad · 30/07/2017 16:11

Take a letter from the previous owner to your vet giving permission to give you the chip details , or they could take her to the vet before you collect , which would be even easier .

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InvisableLobstee · 31/07/2017 08:48

My dog was 7 month when we rescued her and did the painful mouthing. You could tell it was just playing but it hurt! I was worried as I thought that she may be too old to learn bite inhibition but we did get her out of it. We were very strict to say ow and stop playing, maybe put her out of the room. If she got over excited we would stop playing immediately. To be honest it was quite hard at first you need to be very patient and consistent. I do think plenty of exercise and playing/training to give mental stimulation will help too.
Another thing is to make sure you get a proper letter that she is being given to you, signed and dated. I have heard of people having problems that the old owner who seemed lovely at the time suddenly wanted the dog back years later!

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MollyMooDog · 31/07/2017 10:23

Thanks both.

Molly was pretty bad with a mouthing phase that came out of nowhere and I do remember it took quite a lot of patience with her but we got there, with this one being older I am a bit worried she'll not be able to be trained out of this but she does seem to be a pretty intelligent dog and was very obedient and shes clearly got it in her because she didn't do it with the kids at all. We're well prepared for some hard work put it that way!! Usually things that are worth it take a lot of work to get there afterall. But yes I do think the exercise/attention/stimulation will go a very long way to help her over this.

And Invisable thats what Im worried about re: microchip, worried that if she runs off she will be returned to this owner. I dont think for one minute she wouldnt return her back to us but there is always that risk. Plus she'll be insured with us so if she does anything/gets hurt while shes missing I want to make sure she comes back to us so we can deal with it rather than the current owner being responsible for anything, so its to protect them aswell as us.

She has messaged me though and it sounds like she does have the chip details (just has to dig them out) so alls good up to now. Cant wait for Thursday, we're all so excited to have a little piglet running and bouncing around the house again causing mayhem :)

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BLUEsNewSpringWatch · 31/07/2017 10:45

With horses they say it's best to exchange a token amount of money and get a receipt. It's supposed to offer more protection than just being given an animal.

Also if there is any problems with chip paperwork, if you have a receipt for purchase of the dog and go to the vet, they will get the microchip number and which company its with. You should then be able to use the receipt to get chip details changed.

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Purpleknickers · 31/07/2017 10:50

So pleased it all went well can't wait to see a picture once she is all yours

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MollyMooDog · 31/07/2017 11:38

Oh I'll be posting pics if I can get her to sit still long enough Grin, shes stunning, not that Im interested in bloodlines but when the owner mentioned the parents I had heard of one of them from looking at Blue SBT breeders online, and she is a fabulous example of the breed. Not the long legged massive headed type you see that have been clearly crossbred with a horse at some point but the real short small stocky type, perfect for proper doggy rolling around with AND very cuddly and will fit nicely on my lap, well half on half off my lap anyway :)

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MollyMooDog · 31/07/2017 11:40

And thanks Blue, the owner is giving her to us for free as shes just happy shes going to the best ever fact a good home but I am going to give a decent amount for her and will definitely get a receipt!

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pigsDOfly · 31/07/2017 12:52

Aw. Lovely to hear a happy ending for you.

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Veterinari · 31/07/2017 22:29

I remember your last thread OP - so glad you've found a dog shape to fit the hole left by Molly.

I guess I'll state the obvious. This one is different. Doesn't mean she won't be wonderful but she'll be wonderfully different and it will take time for you to adapt. It took about 2 years for me to 'get' my second dog - she's fab she's just not DDog1 who is perfect. And we both had to learn that. Of course I loved her straight away but it took time for us to gel and find our Ruth MN together. So donNt worry if you have days when it feels 'off' be kind to yourself -it will be worth it!

Re chip - nip into your vets They can scan her and check the chip number - most will do it at reception, no charge.

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Veterinari · 31/07/2017 22:30

Ruth MN??!?
Rhythm

My autocorrect is screwed!

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