Please let me preface this possibly long moan by saying that both DH and I have had dogs/puppies before. We lost one of our old ladies (DDog2) in December 2015 and our other one (DDog1) early June 2016, both were 17 years old. Both were cross breeds, we had DDog1 from 8 weeks old and rescued DDog2 when she was approx 18 months old.
We have done a fair to decent amount of research before getting DPuppy as she is a doberman and neither DH nor I have ever had a purebred puppy/dog before.
We got DPuppy at 8 weeks old, she is now almost 12 weeks, we've not had her long I know but we are completely at our wits end with her already. It would have been easier for us to have another child, we certainly got more sleep in the newborn phase with both DD's than we have so far with DPuppy. (I am going to try to not let this turn into a huge, long moan. I apologise if I fail)
The vet said that she cant be walked until 2 weeks after her 3rd vaccination (booster) which is not until the 10th of May this has changed from when we've had puppies before (there was only 2 vaccinations). This will mean that she will be approx 16 weeks before she can be walked! What about socialisation? Surely this isn't right!
We have booked her puppy training classes to start at the end of May but we would like to get her out and about to hopefully calm her down a bit and socialise her with other dogs.
All of us in the house (myself, DH, and both DD's) are working with her daily on basic training techniques and she has full access to our (fully enclosed) garden when we are in the house. She will go outside for the toilet but then come back in and do another wee or poo inside! We have started sitting out with her for half an hour or leaving her in the garden on her own for a short while but she cries, and this morning has just started to bark a bit!
I have apologised to both of our neighbours and plan to buy them wine and chocolates as soon as I get paid.
DPuppy sleeps in her crate nicely and only cries for the toilet at night (she wont do it in the crate thank goodness) she cries 3-5 times a night and either DH or I will pop down and let her out. She will sometimes cry for 2-3 minutes when first put in the crate but soon settles down. (She has access to water in her crate)
The DD's are still off school for the Easter holidays (back tomorrow) and they play with DPuppy outside. We are worrying though that she isn't getting enough exercise and socialisation with other dogs.
She nips the DD's, she doesn't nip either DH or I and she chews EVERYTHING despite having plenty of chew toys, balls, a teddy, and a puppy Kong. We have tried the deterrent spray but she loves the taste of it
Now I've seen it all written down it doesn't seem too bad but we are exhausted with DPuppy right now. If any of you lovelies could please throw some advice our way both DH and I would be most grateful.
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DH and I are at our wits ends with our puppy.
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LittleRedWagon1 · 24/04/2017 09:36
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