DH and I have just adopted the most beautiful 10 week old cocker spaniel pup. His mum was rescued from a puppy farm and he was born in a foster home with seven brothers and sisters, mum and four resident doggies.
We've had him since Monday and he is getting on really well, bright, brave and eating well. He's getting to know out elderly cat and learning his toilet training and we are having lots of fun with him.
I just need some advice re over night arrangements for him. During the day he is with me in the kitchen, family room or garden, comes in the lounge for a kip on my lap in the evening next to the cat. He's not keen on me leaving the room but he has a play pen to keep him out of mischief and I am try a couple of minutes a few times a day with food to distract. He howls, cries like mad and scratches a lot but I try to go in when he's quiet and praise him afterwards.
At night I planned to have him in his large crate in our room while he settles, eventually moving him downstairs when ready. It's half bed half paper so room for any accidents. He's done pretty well the last few nights, probably 5-6 hours sleep but I am needing to settle him to sleep before closing the crate creeping into bed myself. I know it's early days and he is only a tiny baby but I'm worried I'm not doing the right thing with this.
I spoke with his foster mum this morning and she said I must put him in his crate over night, in a warm room, away from me and let him cry himself out or I'll never be able to leave him at all. She has four resuce dogs and has fostered many whelping bitches so I have no doubt she knows what she's doing but I'm so worried he'll get so distressed he'll hurt himself, specially knowing what he's like in the day. I know this is most likely my anxiety talking here but I'm determined to ensure he's happy to be left to sleep at night downstairs and for a couple of hours a few times a week when he is grown.
At 5 am this morning I was resolute that his bedtime crate was going in the dining room with him in it tonight. I was planning on leaving him 12-4am, coming down for a wee break then back in until 7am but now I'm really wavering as he just can't seem to settle at all unless his is touching some part of me, even my foot will do!
Previous puppy experience 20 yrs ago with my beloved JRT but he ended up in the bed as my partner at the time kept bringing him in if he disturbed us! DH will absolutely not have this and I'm not keen.
Any advice greatly received! Thanks
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MonkeyPoozzled76 · 06/01/2017 11:32
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