this has probably been run by a million times before, if so, I'm sorry.
I've been thinking that I'd like to get a dog for many years, but now I'm in the position where I actually physically could as I've got a tenancy where they are allowed.
At home there is myself and 3 kids- 9,8 and 6. The 8 year old has been, for as long as he could talk, requesting a dog/a pet. They have experience of dogs through exH parents having them etc. ExH currently has cats. They don't want cats which is fortunate as I am allergic to them.
The main prompt for me though is that I am wondering whether a dog would be good company for me, and vice versa. I hate it when the kids are at their dads, and I find that time really difficult. I'm thinking a dog might keep me in a routine, and force me to leave the house. I'm up for lots of exercise as I usually run (but injured at present). The fact that all the children, particularly the middle one, seem keen on having a dog, is further encouragement. I'm not able to work at present due to depression, but I am fully aware that if we get a dog it will need either doggy daycare or someone to pop in for a walk whenever I return to part time working- nothing in the pipeline at present. Our holidays tend to be camping…so dog friendly etc.
I'm a bit put off having other pets such as rabbits, hamsters etc as it seems a bit unnatural (I'm a bit of an animal rights person) whereas dogs seem a bit more bred to be with humans.
Please, tell me why I should not get a dog. Or tell me what I should do…I had always assumed I'd get a rescue dog (ex's parents always had rescue dogs and they were all all lovely) but the local rescue places all say no kids under 10. I don't know where to even start with regards puppies as I've heard so many horrible stories about puppy farms.
If you're worried about your pet's health, please speak to a vet or qualified professional.
The doghouse
dogs and depression
dangermouseisace · 07/08/2016 17:47
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