I have posted before I think about the fact that we got our first dog ever last year, a gorgeous, 8 week old fox terrier puppy, we did everything recommended re socialisation, positive training methods, training classes, worked with a behaviourist but ultimately had to rehome him at 6 months old due to aggression to all of us, sometimes randomly (so we couldn't lessen the triggers as we couldn't predict them).
It was an utterly heartbreaking thing to go through and it was me that suffered the most as I felt I'd failed him and the family.
So, we do want to own a dog, but we need to be certain that it will be the right dog for our family.
I thought I had settled on a lurcher/ whippet/ retired greyhound but after speaking to a lovely lady from a rescue today I am having doubts due to our list of wants/ needs. I was told that any lurcher type will need walking with a muzzle as even low prey drive is still there.
Ultimately if I want a sight hound that behaves like a Labrador should we just get a Labrador? (or preferably lab cross to reduce shedding)
I have tried to list our needs below - any advice would be very gratefully received please.
Our future dog needs to be:
Placid - non aggressive to people and dogs
Cat Friendly - we have an elderly cat and will always be cat owners
Able to walk off the lead
Able to cope with a busy household - I don't work so dog won't be left for long periods but there is a lot of coming and going which definitely didn't suit the terrier
Able to cope with time at dog sitters house (she has 12 dogs including our previous one)
Happy to walk to and from school (20 mins each way) and an hours off lead in countryside nearby.
My DH can be a bit allergic - to pollen, the cat, some dogs etc so a low allergen would be good
We don't mind whether it's a puppy or not and don't mind too much how big it is, don't want anything too small and yappy.
I know that there are hundreds of sight hounds in rescues and had been confident that we could adopt a young adult that had lived with cats and could walk off lead this way until I spoke to a couple of rescue people and now I'm losing faith that I'm not trying to fight nature.
We cannot adopt until beginning of September due to holidays but I'd really like to be able to get one asap after that as I so miss having a dog and am driving myself slightly potty looking at Facebook rescue pages.
I'd appreciate any advice please. CMOT I know that you are a lurcher fan, but am I asking too much?
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hillyhilly · 18/05/2016 16:13
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