We are having ongoing problems and I am desperate for suggestions.
When we got our springer spaniel 21/2 years ago we did lots of research, saw both parents and we're a household of husband, myself and 3 young adults, 2 at home and one with long uni hols so it was an ideal time to have a puppy with high energy needs and almost constant company supplied (we have previously had a Weimaraner and a rescue dog when the children were younger so plenty of experience)
But he has been a nightmare from the start, due to constant destructive chewing and also snapping.Being a springer, nothing is out of reach so now the kitchen looks like a deconstructed show home. Even so, he will grab anything and aggressively refuse to give it up, even a scrap of paper. (Today it has been a cookery book, 2 biros and the remains of my sandwich)
We took him to puppy classes and persevered but got demoralised by being shouted at by the teacher for allowing him to play up.
We brought in a trainer who had several long and sensible chats about dog psychology which made sense but didn't help in practice. She demonstrated low command voice, high praise voice, working for praise, showing disapproval with water spray etc. All worked for a few days but he soon got oblivious to the treats and disapprovals.( He is not worried by anything, happy with sudden noises, new experiences etc etc)
On the plus side he is affectionate and very well behaved outside on walks.
Sadly circumstances have changed dramatically recently. 2 of the kids are doing unexpectedly intensive uni courses and are only home for long weekends at Xmas and Easter and the 3rd has unexpectedly left home. Meanwhile, I have been diagnosed with cancer, had a major op and now on chemo and finally my husband has injured his leg!
Obviously he needs far more exercise and attention than we are able to give him at present although he gets at least 2 walks a day and almost constant company.
So, suggestions please.......
Do we give up and rehome him?
Do we dog-proof the house even more and put up with his behaviour until we are well enough to give him the attention he needs?
Do we need a different approach to handling and training?
Any helpful suggestions gratefully received, but no criticism please; we never expected to be in this situation.
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Zadocthepriest · 14/03/2016 14:15
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