I have a friend who works in a dog shelter, she fosters dogs (we're not in the UK so things are a bit different here and stray / unwanted dogs is a real issue). We already have a 2.5 year old rescue ridgeback / staffy mix (we've had her since 8 weeks old) and were looking for another dog to keep her company.
My friend adopted a 9 week puppy (schnauzer mix) from the shelter that she would be very happy to keep but said we could have him for a couple of weeks to see how he got on with our bigger dog. If so, we can keep him, if not, she will. We are both experienced dog owners, we both work from home, have big gardens etc and obviously know that dogs are for life - we are not taking this lightly!
However, 5 days in and our big dog doesn't like the little guy. She growls whenever he comes near her or her crate, if he climbs up on the sofa with her, she gets down, if he runs into the garden, she comes into the house. He is mirroring her, wants to be with her all the time, doing his best to ingratiate himself with her, lots of play bowing etc but she's just not interested. We have given her lots and lots of attention, treats and obviously the pup doesn't walk with us yet. I often take him out in the car so he gets used to that so big dog has time without him too. We'll wait another few days but I'm wondering if this is ever going to work. I think that right now he'd be better off with my friend (she has just adopted another 9 week old puppy herself and is looking for a companion for him).
Any thoughts? Is this ever going to work? Is there anything I can do to help big dog like little dog?
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MyFriendsCallMeOh · 13/11/2015 13:16
My older boy loathed our pup when we brought him home. Very similar behaviour in the first week, second week less grumbling and a slow, gradual acceptance from then on. What really helped was when pup could come on walks and old dog realised he finally had someone who could keep up to run with (both Lurchers).
To be honest, adult dogs will growl at pups, to make them aware of their boundaries and put them in their place. As Asteria said, they are just a warning and not a sign of aggression.
Pup is now two and a half years old and whilst not as close as old dog was with my old girl, they share a bed and cuddle up together, love walks/runs and generally bump along together the rest of the time. The only time they've ever had a proper spat, it was over food and it turned out our old lad was poorly.
Old lad still won't go in the garden with the younger lad unless dh or I are out there, probably as a result of being ambushed by needle sharp puppy teeth every time he did it when the younger lad was a pup, but as that actually stops it being turned into a muddy race-track during winter, that suits us fine and they just go out separately. The younger lad is quite happy to play out there on his own anyway.
Old dog now howls if we take the younger lad out without him, so he must appreciate his company. I think he luffs him really, but is a curmudgeonly old git and has to keep up appearances. 
Oh my goodness he's gorgeous! He looks almost exactly like a little pup I nursed when I was volunteering for the NCDL over 20 years ago. She had a severe Ecoli infection and I desperately wanted to keep her, but wasn't able to as my health declined and there was no way I could take on another pup at that point in my life. 
Your girl is beautiful too, such a soulful face and all those 'norty' spots! Got to love those bat ears too. She's just lovely. 
Hope she starts to accept him soon and it's not long before they're best buddies.
I can see how there could be at least a hint of Chi in there from his face. Definitely some sort of terrier too, although I can't really see it being Schnauzer given his colouring - unless he's a mixed breed, rather than a first cross and the colouring has come from something else. His fur looks far too coarse for a Maltese.
The little pup I nursed was actually a Lurcher and sparked a love of Lurchers for me (I have two at the moment). I don't know her exact mix, but probably Whippet x Terrier (now often called 'Whirriers' ) of some sort, best guess would probably be Patterdale or Bedlington. The black and white would have come from the Whippet in her case. She was less pointy-faced than most Lurchers though, so I think she took more from the Terrier than the Whippet side, iyswim.
We almost went for this gorgeous Whirrier girl when we took on our younger dog as a pup, but she was snapped up by someone else before we had chance. I can definitely see a resemblance to your pup there, although she's obviously bigger. She actually grew up to be a lot less, whiskery, than she started out so your boy may yet surprise you.
Other Whippet Terrier, mostly Bedlington crosses Daphne and Bonz,
Whatever he is, he's gorgeous.
We were duped! Our pup was quite frail and tiny when we got him. No -one knew his background, as he and one sibling were dumped in a ditch at birth. We had hoped he would be Whippet size or not much bigger, as we already had/have an older Lurcher that's 24" to the shoulder, but no, he grew - and grew - and grew and is now just shy of 29" to the shoulder. 
Here are some pictures of him at 8 weeks, 6 months and recently.
... and here's one of our older boy. He's 10 this month and we do know his mix, it's Saluki/Deerhound x Greyhound/Bearded Collie. You'd think he would be the taller one with Saluki, Deerhound and Grey in his mix, but he's almost 5" shorter to the shoulder. Also, he was smooth haired as a pup, if slightly broken coated, but is a proper beardy, hairy lad. He kind of grew into his scruffiness!
I have a 11 year old dog and 5 m old puppy they get along fine the older one puts the pup in its place then again so does the cat
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