A rescue local to me had a staffie up for rehoming, this is not a breed I've ever considered before as I have to admit I believed the stereotyping and thought they were too risky to have with a young family.
However, something about the dog reeled me in and I really fell for him. He is 7yo and had been given up due to circumstances which were not to do with him, his owner was distraught apparently.
Anyway, shortly after I saw the Rescue centre's plea for a home for him I lost my internet for a few days and by the time I got back online he had gone to a potential new home. I was quite upset as by this point I had tried to find out as much as I could about the breed and had changed my uninformed opinion and realised he could be perfect for us.
By chance this week I have found that he is back for adoption. The rescue have told me that it is because his new owner had tried leaving him for around 3hrs at a time straight away before he was settled in and they had also wanted to confine him to one room whilst out which he didn't like. He was fine with the run of the house whilst left though. This reassured me that he wasn't necessarily a problem dog and the issue was one that I could get around and as I'm a SAHM it wouldn't be a problem anyway.
He has been with a foster family for a number of months and they have young children similar in age to my own (5 and 7yo) and he is absolutely fine with them. Loves them in fact. He is good on/off lead, well behaved and just wants to be a lap dog apparently :)
So, this all sounds perfect. However, DH has concerns that he must be a problem dog hence why he is rescue (I have no reason to believe there is any truth in this) and is naturally worried about taking on an older dog and any potential issues with the children. I spoke to my dad last night about it and he was horrified and said the dog could turn on the children etc.
This has really knocked my confidence in the dog, I'm certain that he is fine and im going to see him tomorrow (alone for the first time as I don't want to get the children's hopes up until we've at least passed the home check).
I've had dogs all my life but only ever from a pup where I've known both parents' history - am I crazy to want to take on a dog that there is possibly little info about even though he has been an angel in foster home?
Would really appreciate any thoughts, I obviously don't want to put my children at any risk and even so I won't leave him unattended with them and they will be taught not to touch him whilst sleeping/eating and not to take anything from him.
Thanks!
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