Our puppy is now 6 months old, he's very sweet natured and easy going until we go out and then he barks at every dog he sees, he's up on his hind legs desperate to greet them and their owners and is the same with people (but doesn't bark at them). I have been to puppy classes and even had private one to one sessions but cannot break this cycle. People say he'll grow out of it and that he needs more socialisation, but I work so the walks he has during the week tend to be in the village where we live where he doesn't meet other dogs but over the weekend we make sure we walk where there are plenty of other dogs (painful though it is)!
That's one thing.
The other is worse. I don't think I want to keep the puppy any more. He has been the cause of untold arguments between myself and my 11 year old son (who the puppy was bought for after much soul searching and discussion) as although my son loves the dog, his input when it comes to walks, training etc is minimal. He would rather play with his friends or watch TV than interact for any length of time with the dog. This makes me resentful of the poor puppy as I feel that I am the main carer (I work from home) and annoyed with my son because of it.
I was really naive about how much attention a puppy would need and how restricting it would be for me. I really stupidly didn't think it through.
I think I'm suffering hormonally too as I'm going through the menopause and having the puppy is increasing my stress levels and making me more unhappy. I really don't know what to do now as I feel that giving him away makes me a selfish bad person and I feel that I'd be giving up on him but at the same time, I really crave the freedom I had before getting him.
Has anyone else gone through similar feelings or is it just me? As I am typing this, I want to cry as I feel so guilty.
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NatFrenchie · 16/07/2015 09:05
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