Hi everyone. Today was a very special day for my children and I, as after years of deliberating and doing research into breeds etc, we finally went to choose our pup! Photos to follow when my teenage daughter is around to help me post them up! We were really chuffed at how it all went and love our wee lad already. Exciting!
One thing has happened late tonight to sour it a wee bit though. My mum does some work with rescue Staffies, has adopted one, and has made the whole thing her life. I haven't actually seen her for months and nor have my kids. That's fine and I'm glad she has a focus in her life. We support her choice (even though it wasn't always easy at first with this big dog sometimes growling at the grandkids) and my mum has worked wonders with the dog. I applaud her for this, and we take turns to mind the dog if she has to go away for the weekend or whatever.
Tonight I posted on FB about our new pup and put up some photos. My mum hasn't liked or commented on it, but instead put a post on her own timeline about a rescue Staffie who has 4 weeks to live before being euthanised. I am devastated for this animal, and have shared the post with several dogloving friends who have better doggie contacts than I do.
I now feel a bit frivolous and stupid for getting a non rescue pup. I did consider the rescue Staffie option, but rejected it because of our cat. I have chosen a non aggressive breed that gets on fine with other animals, so that I can more or less guarantee his safety as best I can.
Now, I LOVE Staffies and was brought up with them, so I do know what I'm talking about. They are the most fantastic family dogs imaginable, in the right hands. However, as wonderful as ours were with us as kids, I remember the stress of walking ours when there were other dogs around. I wanted a breed that my kids could take for walks themselves (at a suitable age of course) in the park, without too much stress or worry.
I have a bit of anxiety at the moment, which is making me focus on the plight of this poor Staffie, and my earlier joy of the day is dissipating.
Am I being unreasonable to think that my mum should respect our choice, and be happy for us? Incidentally, her face was also tripping her at my nephew's (her grandson) first Holy Communion a few weeks ago, as she doesn't agree with the whole religion thing
I can totally see myself taking on a rescue Staff way ahead in the future, when I have no cat/young kids/more indoor space.
Sorry this is so long. Thanks for reading if you've made it this far.
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picked our new pup today ... but now feel a bit crap
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Dieu · 22/06/2015 00:23
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