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Need to Vent - looking after friends dogs!

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LetThereBeCupcakes · 10/02/2015 21:14

No real reason for this post aside from a vague hope that I can sob on somebody's shoulder!

We were out walking with our friends on Sunday. DH and I have 2 Labradors. Friends have 2 collies and 2 JRTs. One of our friends slipped and landed awkwardly, breaking his ankle and leg. After a very frightening 2 hours with him unable to move / hyperthermia setting in / ambulance refusing to come because he "wasn't high enough priority", we got some friendly army men to help us and we got him to hospital.

By this time it was getting late and we had toddler DS with us, so we offered to take all six dogs back to ours for the night.

They are still here.

Collie 1 has resource guarding issues and will attack other dogs that go near him when he has a toy. All toys have had to be confiscated. He is currently sitting on the sofa picking chunks of mud out of his paws.

Collie 2 is the mouthiest dog I've ever come across and just won't...stop... barking. She can open doors and has chewed through 2 coat pockets. I had to work this morning, left the collies and JRTs crated. Came back and Collie 2 had escaped the crate (crate still shut and the dog she was sharing with still inside). She had tipped up our kitchen bin and eaten / shredded the contents. She peed on the carpet. A LOT.

JRT 1 is an old girl and generally OK, but has a tendency to wonder. Our garden is dog-proofed - but from the POV of Lab owners. JRTs can fit through fat smaller gaps that Labs.

JRT 2 is just generally a loon. Shreds anything he gets hold of and is not properly house trained.

None of the 4 dogs has any form of recall. In fact the only command they have is "sit" and that's a bit shakey. Our house is small and I am finding it exhausting having to avoid them. They can all clear our baby gates and both collies open doors so I can't contain them.

2YO DS is thrilled to be surrounded by so many dogs, but has taken to getting in a dog crate to eat as all of our friend's dogs pester him for food.

Obviously we want to help our friends out and we will keep them as long as we can, but grrrrr.....

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Viewofthehills · 10/02/2015 21:17

Well you can't carry on like that with a little Ds- ask them which kennels they want them to go to?

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LetThereBeCupcakes · 10/02/2015 21:19

view I am very tempted! He is due out of hospital tomorrow so words will be had. They have been very apologetic about the dogs' behaviour.

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Looseleaf · 10/02/2015 21:27

Poor you- this sounds awful. And also very very kind and it sounds like they are sensitive to the fact it's been difficult which helps. I hope you can get rid of them earlyish tomor! And that you get an enormous thanks.
My advice is to be honest and say it's been very hard and why in a kind relaxed way so they fully realise as might help take some of the frustration away just that they realise

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Viewofthehills · 10/02/2015 21:33

In that case he can have them home, but depending on his level of mobility maybe he should ask for a frame to walk with. Not being facetious- dogs have a way of getting under your feet.
If you still want to help you could take them for the odd walk to wear them out, but I wouldn't offer to have them longer as you could be letting yourself in for months before he's better.

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LetThereBeCupcakes · 10/02/2015 21:34

Thanks loose. I think if I called her now and asked her she'd come straight over and get them, but we really do want to help. She suffers from depression and he is self employed so now can't work so they have some big worries. When things settle down for them I might make a gentle suggestion that they sign up for training classes.

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TheHappinessTrap · 10/02/2015 21:35

I take it the friends you were walking with are not a couple? If so I'd have expected the other partner to keep the dogs? ?

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TheHappinessTrap · 10/02/2015 21:36

Oh they are a couple! I think that's odd. Very generous of you op!

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LetThereBeCupcakes · 10/02/2015 21:36

Really good point view a frame would be really useful.

We are going away in a few days so the dogs will have to go soon regardless!

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LetThereBeCupcakes · 10/02/2015 21:39

They are a couple but between her shift work and travelling over an hour each way to and from the hospital it seemed sensible for us to have the dogs.

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MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig · 10/02/2015 22:16

AIBU to have roared at the mental image of your son curled up eating his tea in the dog crate? Grin

Sorry. Not helpful. I'd be dropping the dogs back round tomorrow without any negotiations.

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punter · 11/02/2015 09:35

well done you for coping with this. Sounds terrible that the ambulance would not come.

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LetThereBeCupcakes · 11/02/2015 13:32

"adorabelle" YANBU! Will try and upload a pic later.

Ambulance person said he wasn't high priority because he was conscious. Even though he had broken bones and hypothemia. He's also diabetic. We had to get a passing army regiment to help us.

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BurningBridges · 12/02/2015 13:32

How are things today Cupcakes?

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LetThereBeCupcakes · 12/02/2015 16:33

They've gone Grin

They asked up to keep them until Friday. I laughed. One of their collies started snapping at my dogs so that was the final straw. The house stinks now, major cleanup operation required! But that will have to wait as I've done my back in.

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AlpacaLypse · 12/02/2015 16:36

Cupcakes were you on Salisbury Plain by any chance? If so I've just joined a rather handy FB site for regular dogwalking users.

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MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig · 12/02/2015 16:51

What did they do when you laughed? Grin

Is the friendship still going? Cheeky beggars.

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LetThereBeCupcakes · 12/02/2015 18:47

alpaca we were! You're not my friend are you?

adorabelle the request came via my DH so sadly they missed my reaction.

Our friendship is fine. They understand how hard it has been and they couldn't have been more apologetic or grateful.

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AlpacaLypse · 19/02/2015 09:10

This is the FB site I mentioned.

Will pm you.

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