DH grew up with dogs and has always wanted us to get one. I have never had a dog, but I wanted one too. Unfortunately, up until recently we were renting and working full time, so it just wasn't the right situation.
However, we now own our house and DH works from home. The catch is that we now have a baby. Before DS was born, we decided that we would get a dog when he was 6-9 months. He is now going on for 5 months, and I just don't feel that keen anymore. Life is busy enough at the moment, and I feel like the last thing I need is something else to look after. We also have two guinea pigs who I used to spend lots of time cuddling, but these days they don't get much attention beyond being fed and cleaned out.
I haven't mentioned this yet to DH, as he hasn't actually instigated anything so far. I'm wondering whether I'm being selfish. He doesn't have many friends or family here as he moved to live with me (not that he complains, it just makes me feel guilty about not wanting to go through with this). And he will no doubt tell me that he will do all the walking etc. But even so, the more time he is looking after the dog, the more I will have to do with DS etc.
Sorry for rambling, but just looking for some perspective from dog-owners. I don't know when I will feel ready to get a dog. For starters, we want to have another baby in a couple of years, so we could be looking at many years down the line.
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Not sure I want a dog anymore but DH does
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edgesaresharp · 21/12/2014 20:46
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