Hi there
We have a 5 year old male border terrier. He is generally a happy dog and lovely with us and the dc (dd age 3, ds age 1).
I work part time and dh shifts so he doesn't get left alone very often. He has two walks a day but when I'm on my own at home with the dc (quite a lot due to dh work) these walks are not the best - lead on the street with buggy and slow moving 3 year old! I would like to give him more attention and play time but he has had to take a back seat since the dc arrived, more so with dc2.
After watching The Secret Life of dogs last night I thought I would see out of interest what he does when he's alone in the house. We always assumed he just curled up on his bed and slept the time away. So I was surprised when I watched a video back that he paced the kitchen (shut in) and cried and yelped for the whole 30 minutes I was out.
He luckily doesn't cause damage or toilet in the house at all.
At night he used to sleep in the kitchen but was never happy about it often yelping and jumping at the door. Since it got quite bad we moved his bed up to the landing and he sleeps quite happily in it all night being that bit closer to us and can often be found curled up in it during the day for a bit of peace and quiet. However, we still leave him in the kitchen where there is radio and water when we go out. I'm thinking about whether we should leave him on the landing now with upstairs doors closed and stair gate over at the top of the stairs or even giving him the run of the stairs and hall by the front door, but I don't know whether the extra space would make the anxiety worse and whether he would just wait by the front door rather than cosy in his own bed.
Any suggestions?
I have picked up a few tips about how to train him to be relaxed when we go out, so will try that desensitisation thing with putting coat/shoes on, getting keys etc. And have frozen some of his wet dog food inside a kong which can distract him and keep him occupied. Can't afford a behaviourist unfortunately or DAP diffuser unless anyone thinks that a DAP diffuser/spray really works and I will try to budget for one.
Sorry for long post any advice greatly received. I just can't bear the thought of him being unhappy.
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Border terrier separation anxiety - advice on where to leave in the house
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gruffalobore · 15/10/2013 20:29
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