As posted before here my beloved Dog is very poorly. She's on painkillers and anti-inflammatories to control the pain, but basically it's a waiting game until either the tumour(s) in her chest get her, or her leg gets injured causing her to need to be PTS.
Now, I'm sort of coping with this; except when I get tired and emotional and have a bit of a cry, but generally I'm dealing with the now and making sure she's happy and as healthy as can be, and she's getting treats and fuss. She comes to work with me, I've started sleeping on the sofa so she doesn't go up and down the stairs, so I'm sure she's as comfortable as possible.
The thing is, when I think of the future, and in particular the initial days after she goes, I'm bloody petrified. I live on my own, and although I do have local family, Dog's been my closest companion ever since I moved out, and I really don't think I'm going to cope waking up without her.
Now, the plan is always going to be to have another dog, in my desperation I thought 'why not get another dog before Dog goes?' and then the desperation passed, but the thought lingered on. Dog sees other dogs on a daily basis; we go to each of my parents' houses once a week for dinner (and to check up on them!) and they each have two dogs. We're a very doggy group of people, and our dogs have always got on well.
So basically I'm wondering if it's the worst idea in the world to be getting a dog whilst Dog's poorly, especially as I know the reasoning could be seen as rather selfish, but my absolute priority is keeping Dog comfortable and safe and I wouldn't let anything put her at undue risk.
Also - to add another level of complexity, the dog I'm looking at is currently in Romania. It's through the Action Aid For Animals charity (similar to Balkan Underdogs) and would be coming to the UK in the first weeks of July (so, realistically, I might not even have my Dog by then and this all might be moot, but I'm working on the assumption that Dog is still with me) - does anyone know anything about rescue dogs from Eastern Europe? I know I saw a thread on it a few weeks back, so will re-read that.
I know a lot about raising a puppy, and I'm confident it would be ok, having the two of them together; I would give Puppy a pen to sleep in so there's no risk of puppy hurting Dog in the night. Dog would continue coming to work with me, and Puppy would stay at my Mum's during the day, with people around it for most of the day, and with me returning at lunch times.
Am I seeing this all through determinedly rose-tinted specs? I'm about 99% certain that I'm going to do this, I just wanted to see if anyone was dramatically outraged by the idea.
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Frettchen · 11/06/2013 09:28
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