Hi. I am 19 weeks pregnant and want to ensure my dog is as prepared as possible for the arrival of baby. I don't want him to be stressed out by the arrival of the baby and I don't want to get stressed out at him when I am tired etc.
He is a 4 year old labrador x miniature poodle whom we have had since he was a puppy. I work from home 90% of the time so he is used to having me around. He often tends to come upstairs with me and sleeps in his bed on the landing while I work in the office. He is pretty well trained (although a little cheeky at times).
Baby will be sleeping in our room with us initially and then in our spare room for the next few months (the spare room is also my dressing room so it will certainly be multi-functional for a while!) Our dog sleeps on the landing at night but does tend to come into our bedroom in the morning, usually to wake us up because he wants breakfast!) He also tends to come into the spare room with me when I am getting ready. In fact, it's probably fair to say that he follows me everywhere given half a chance!
He is allowed on the sofas for a cuddle but only when invited - he does sit in front of us to 'ask' to get up and sometimes we let him but does respond well when we say "no, bed"
He is not food possessive at all.
He follows me everywhere. I can train him very easily to stay downstairs when I go upstairs and can train him to stay out of certain rooms. I know how to do this but we haven't always been consistent which is why he follows me around He is a very intelligent dog and learns very quickly when training is consistent. He is also quite a sensitive dog.
If we leave him downstairs while we come upstairs he tends to collect items such as slippers and shoes and cuddles up in bed with them and even takes the dog shaped draft excluded In similar circumstances he has been known to take plastic type things to his bed and chew them, I think because they make satisfying crunching noises as he destroys them!
He absolutely loves cuddly and squeaky toys although doesn't get possessive over them.
He can get jealous - if I am stroking another dog he is likely to come over and wants to get in on the action but there is no aggression whatsoever. Similarly if my husband and I are having a cuddle, he wants to join in.
All in all, he is a wonderful temperament and is fairly well trained but has been a bit spoilt with time, love and affection, particularly by me.
Sorry, this has turned into a really long rambling post but just wanted to explain as much as possible about my dog.
What are the best things to do to prepare him for the arrival of baby. Things I had thought of but don't know if they are necessary:
- Practice bed stays to ensure he stays in his bed sometimes when baby is on the floor (eg nappy changing). Don't want the baby standing on!
- Prevent him from coming into our bedroom and the baby's room (a little concerned about this as he does come into our room to tell us if he needs the toilet in the middle of the night or if he is going to be sick)
- Stop him from following me upstairs so that I do not get stressed out by him being underfoot when I am with the baby.
- Get a 'baby crying CD' and also perhaps a doll to carry around. Ignore any jealousy type demands for attention when I have the doll.
- Put up cot and Moses basket before baby arrives so that he gets used to it
- Borrow friend's pushchair so we can practice leadwork and ignore strange looks that I will get for pushing an empty pushchair around!
- When baby arrives, try to find a few minutes every day just for me and my dog to have a snuggle.
Does anyone have any other suggestions, or any comments on my ideas. Really want to make this transition as calm as possible for my dog and us. I read a thread on AIBU recently about people who don't really like their dog as much after they've had a baby and the majority of posters agreed that it is how they had felt. The thread really upset me and left me a hormonal blubbing mess and the dog had very soggy fur
Sorry for rambling