Rollo (golden retriever) is now 8 months old. Family life still completely revolves around his needs and I need to see if there's 'light at the end of the tunnel' from dog owners beyond the puppy stage?
If you work - at least part-time - have DCs and either no partner (in my case) or one who might just as well not be there, how do you 'live' your days with your dog? What makes it fun? When do dogs get beyond the stage of bloody hard work?
Currently, I'm up at 5.30am, let Rollo out at 6am and feed him and give him his various medications (takes till 6.30am). He gets a walk from about 6.55am till 7.29am when I then take DCs to school. Rollo is sleeping when I return and I work till 11am when I let him out in the garden, interact with him, feed him lunch and then he naps again in the kitchen as I work from noon till 2pm. Then I take him on a 40mins walk, rush home, leave him to nap again and do school run from 3pm till 4.15pm.
4.15pm till Rollo's main and last walk at 6pm is Hell with Rollo! He naturally needs attention, more food at 4pm, playing, toileting and I'm doing all that at same time as supervising homework and making DCs meal.
6pm till 7pm we all go on dog walk. This is searingly difficult if it's raining/ the DCs are tired/ someone of us is ill.
8pm, Rollo goes to sleep in his crate but I can never ever predict if he'll wake me barking in the middle of the night (Rollo barking, not me!).
Recent typical struggles also include him squidging his face into some other dog's diarrhoea, so had to clean him up at home (and he did this through the muzzle he always wears on walks to prevent him eating anything as he gets recurrent diarrhoea)....him waking me 3 hrs after I went to sleep at night, for no reason (me in garden then with him at 1am)....stealing plastic/ cardboard/ paper from kitchen surfaces and tearing it apart in garden...digging endless, endless holes in the now destryed lawn and - worse - eating grass and mud, which he mustn't, cos of diarrhoea....
It's MUCH easier than it was when he was tiny - but it's still incredibly hard work and no real fun. We all love him but we find it almost impossible to live with him. There is still NO time whatsoever at all for me to do anything fun with the DCs since we got Rollo and absolutely no question of any time for me even to fulfill my own basic needs - like eat regularly, sleep enough, go to loo etc - since we got Rollo.
At times I feel as if I really really can't go on with him.
I know I've posted along these lines before but what would be really helpful now is some experiences of having a dog FURTHER down the line so I can look towards a future that's manageable with Rollo as part of our family.
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Solo2 · 09/10/2011 08:44
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