Aaaah you mean hearted ladies. I sobbed and sobbed. Not about the weird Meedith in the afterlife thing, but about the strength of emotions of those losing a friend. Richard, Izzy, Christina, McDreamy, even George in his strange little way. So sad - made me think about how awful it would be to lose a friend my age. I'm well resigned to the fact that parents and aunts etc have only a year or two left, but the thought of a colleague, school gate friend or best buddy going is so very sad.