Long story: went to France with husband and 3 kids. He gave up and returned after 2 years. We stayed, but came back to UK 4 years ago. After 13 years he wanted to see kids! He appeared to have changed; now staying in my flat and paying some of the electricity etc. BUT only ever cooks/buys stuff for kids. I am ignored, except for snide messages written by him. I live in lounge, he has bedroom 2. 16 year old has not said a polite word to me in a month (and only 2 sentances in total at that), I am invisible and going bananas. 14 year old talks to me if Daddy not here. I want him out, HOW? Am afraid 16 year old will go with, he has more money than I and she is at the age where that is more important than the parent who raised her. Help, please, before I go totally nuts.