For the third time in about six months ds1 (11)has had subjected us to a very strange experience.
The first one was about six months ago, he and dh were in the living room, having a row about something, probably homework and ds1 started shouting "get off me" "stop it" " don't hit me" and other things along those lines. Nothing had happened - they were stood at opposite ends of the room.
Then a couple of months ago he and I had a row and a good 10 minutes later he came downstairs with a burst lip - he then accused me of doing it and no matter how much I reminded him that I hadn't touched him he insisted that I had burst his lip.
Tonight there was a row and ds1 threw the laundry basket at dh, dh put it back on his bed, the row continued, ds1 threw it at him and it hit dh, dh threw it back and it may have hit ds1, but if it did it could only have been on his bum because of the position he was in (dd age 16 was there and backs this up, I was coming home from work.) I came in from work, was in about 10 minutes, when ds came down with a bleeding nose and said that it had happened when dh threw the laudry basket at him. Because of the time delay (if there had been a burst nose it would have been immediatley apparent as with the lip)
We didn't accuse ds1 of making this up but after a minute he shouted at us "why would I make my own nose bleed?"
He has had a lot of problems at school due to not working and not doing homework and has been deprived of things at home [game boy x box etc]
I totally beleive dh/dd, but what on earth would you do in this situation?
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lilibet · 18/03/2005 23:02
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