Ds (17) is studying for AS levels and takes his work very seriously. He also plays hockey for the school (3 matches a week) and plays football on Sundays. He has just started driving lessons. As a hobby he studies Russian. He says he loves all his activities and doesn't want to stop any of them. However he says he finds it difficult to sleep at night because he is so anxious about the next day and now has no appetite on days when he has a match or driving lesson. He says he can see light at the end of the tunnel because next term he won't have any matches to play but then he will be facing 10 exam papers.
I know ds has always been prone to anxiety but I really thought he had developed strategies to help him cope so it has come as a bit of a bombshell to find he is so overwhelmed. It must be pretty bad for him to have confided in me. There is a school counsellor I could suggest he consults but I'm not sure he would go to her. How can I help him 'chill out' - especially when I've never learned to do that myself. (Been on anti-depressants and tranqilisers most of my adult life). He doesn't feel that the school or us is putting too much pressure on him - it is just his own high expectations of himself. Any advice anyone?????
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redsky · 15/03/2005 14:26
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