I know this is gona sound mad as ive had a few hours to chill out since this happend but any advice will be taken on board . So from the top last year at age 16 my s/d met a guy and went to his house a three hour drive a way and slept with him ! and we had a big row which ended in my ever so d/h leaving me and taking her with him for the week end !! (mothers day week end )the same monday they came home we had a phone call from her college saying the guy was trouble and had been suspended over three months erlier for a)assulting a tutor and b) a nother female student ,and also turned out she was his ex g/f best mate !! so we all agreed she would wait till she was 18 and would have finnished her college course before having b/f . we all got on really well till she blurts out that she has been asked out by her friends ex and has said yes (and i mean he dumped the friend then turened to s/d and asked her out !!!) and she was reallly happppy about this !!! and she had said yes . so i said no way on this earth as we had had this before and she only has 6mths left at college so she can wait !! education is way more important than a lad ,right ? So my d/h has packed their bags aand drove of leaving our young three children in histerics , saying i am been "so unreasonable " i know it seems harsh but she has the maturity of 14y/o .and thats not been funnie she has been bought up with a single dad and weirdo nana till i came along !!! i feel so sad for the youngest three they are heart broken .
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